I really don’t feel like I’m that bitter man-hating and eating type woman… yet. I mean there is a strong possibility I could be that woman one day, but that’s not the case yet. Sure I still have some hope and a prayer that one day I’ll find someone that is as up to par in life as I am. But until then, I’ve come to a grave understanding of men.
They are just not as good as women. At least not the average joe anyways. Women need to STOP falling over their hands feet and self esteem for a dude that hasn’t even considered seeing you as a potential life partner. We NEEEEEED to look at men as they look at us. We are a dime a dozen to them. They want girls girls girls. So we need to see them the same exact way. “Boys boys boys.. boys I do adore…” or “I just want to @^%# all the boys in the world.” This mentality is extremely vital to keeping your dignity in this day in age. No he’s not the ONE. No you’re not in LOVE. Screw that scary noise. It’s a road to no where. You know when you can start thinking about love… when this dude is falling over backwards and making himself look like a damn fool because he has to be with you. And even then… give the guy a few years… men have this thing where they like to pursue something madly that they can’t have… well that doesn’t make you his LOVE forever.. you’re just a very challenging video game in that sense. Don’t fall for the ish. If you are a REAL believer of love.. you won’t FALL for that fluff.
Now am I saying go whore yourself out? No. That part is up to your discretion. It’s not the path I’m gonna take, but some women some how enjoy popping their muffins all around town. I’m sure there’s an art form to that sensitive part of dating, but I expect you will fine tune that in your own experience. I’m not one to judge.
That’s my two cents anyways. The romantic and “in love” feelings you have for a person… is mainly chemical. What you really want is commitment.. loyality.. eternal friendship. Don’t get wrapped up in these dudes.. especially if you find
him in the wrong place. You’ll be surprised what you can “fall in love with” so you really have to be careful from the get g0. AND NO you are not a shallow gold digger if you want your man to have a good job and plenty of money. We are letting these dogs get off too easy. Keep the bar high.
That’s if you didn’t already know.
